I started reading the AfME document, but found it heavy going and decided I had more important things to read today.
Regarding
@Peter Trewhitt’s comment on the advice he was given on activity switching... I think that advice is unhelpful. When I was at my most ill, I found that the act of switching between activities totally drained me of mental energy. Actually I still find it better to do one activity slowly slowly, with day-dream breaks, than to try switching to a new task. Switching is a form of multitasking, and frankly that’s difficult even when fully well, alert and functioning.
@dave30th asked about diary keeping. I did a couple of months of that early in my illness, and it was useful to show the doctor how little I was able to do, and how very much I was sleeping (at that time 2 hrs morning, 2 hours afternoon, and often 10 hours at night).
However, one sympathetic Dr I saw about 6 months in, advised me that I was probably wasting energy filling these charts in, and that it was time to let that activity go. He understood that dealing with ME was about dropping things from your life. He also said: to listen to my body; that allowing relapses was serious; and that I was always to do less than I thought I was able to do. Sadly he then retired.
However his advice, “Do only 60% of what you think you can do without producing symptoms” stuck with me! That was a real tough moment, as I was hoping I could push my limit up a little. Instead, I was advised to cut right back, and for a LONG period. He told me not to expect any improvement for at least 6 to 9 months! (I think he didn’t want to scare me by being honest and that this could be MUCH more long term than that!)
I should add here that I was also being given conflicting advice by other doctors, and one advised me that 3 short brisk walks a day was the way forwards. THAT of course was the advice I wanted to be the best!! I know now it wasn’t!
In my opinion, the toughest thing of all for an ME peep to do is to recognise when they are approaching their energy ceiling and to pull back in good time. My ceiling may be higher now, but it still dictates how much I can do by the minute, the hour, the day, week and month. I think where I’ll be this time next year, depends on both how well I respect that ceiling, and plain old luck.
We all exist in uncertainty. But I think we do instinctively know when our bodies are telling us to slow up. The difficulty is that neither society, nor ourselves, wants us to listen to those evolutionarily ancient warning signs.
Okay - that’s my musings for this morning over.