And we shouldn't sink to the level of silencing dissenting voices. AfME might be a threat to ME patients through their habit of supporting awful research and quacks, if they haven't learned anything from it, but their presence here is no threat at all. Even if they say something offensive or disagreeable, we are very well equipped to respond and point out any errors as well as explaining why any such statements are erroneous.
I can easily think of many ways to support my arguments regarding every issue where I might disagree with them. I would be far less confident of my ability to defend a blanket ban of AfME, or anyone else who is following the same rules as the rest of us. Censorship is generally indefensible - why attempt to defend the indefensible when you can simply avoid doing something ultimately indefensible in the first place?
Perhaps i have not explained my position properly, i have not said to ban them or anyone else.
In this sort of war you do. In science in general you do. I think it may have parallels with Mahatma Ghandi's teachings. If your enemy claims ownership of something on the grounds of truth or moral high ground, as here and in India, (and in contrast to Mr Trump who makes no pretence) then if you throw real truth and morality at them they can only use it to shoot themselves in the foot. The BPS people have done that persistently with their attacks on patients and with the devising of ever more ludicrous trials. They are now paying the price - ignominy.
AfME may have been misguided. Even misguided people at some point have to give up when the ship has sunk.
Giving access to private information to people who could twist anything they can to use against you is like a fox guarding a hen house.
I am not saying don't be nice to your adversary, i am saying don't give them more weapons to use against you. You should
always try to make peace with your opponent but you should not undermine yourself in the process. Trust is earned, not given away, at least in my books.
There is a thread on here i didn't read about the DWP looking for CCTV footage of people with disabilities, i have not read it but i assume all the replies think this is a great idea and we should be happy about it. Can anyone confirm this is the case?
A story i heard about was someone on disability because of a back injury, they could not typically walk for more then 5 mins. Once they had a good day and walked ten minutes straight, their benefits were cut off because the insurance company had been following them whenever they left the hosue. They were in pain for a week afterwards but the fact they once made 10 minutes meant no more support despite the doctors evidence, the x-rays, the past and future planned surgeries...
Imagine going hungry and homeless because you had a good day and walked for 10 minutes.
In a public instance someone was on medical leave for depression or something, they posted a photo on facebook of being at the beach, their benefits were cut off (its was on the news years ago).
If i claim to be 80% housebound but i go out 3 times in a 10 day period, say the doctor, the grocery store and the corner store. I'm now a liar because it may average 80% so lets say from the 1st to 9th i went to the grocery store but the 10th to 18th i went to the doctor and grocery store. I'm actually more then 80% housebound on average but i went to the corner store on the 5th, doctor on the 9th and grocery on the 14th. Bye bye benefits.
You can’t educate someone who has no intention of being educated. Any attempts made by patients to ask them pertinent questions is met by one response only: censureship, they block you on their social media. My guess is that they will never comment or read any of those threads anyway. Unless it has something to do with needing cheer leaders for something they want to be congratulated on. It’s all one way: they take but never give.
They have the power and frequently censor patient voices unless it agrees with their agenda (fatigue/ME conflation). Otherwise they come down on you like a ton of bricks and block you. I don’t know where they get the resource es/time to keep tabs on patients so tightly. If only they cared as much about working towards achieving proper biomedical research instead of online surveillance of very ill ME sufferers
Indeed
@Action for M.E. are actually giving an awful lot away about themselves. They are clearly capableof interacting with us (I don't imagine as an organisation they are bedbound and very severe), yet they don't. To me that gives the strongest indication that all the things I hear of them are true. Why would they treat people (we are people aren't we?) that way? It's just ... weird.
But to reiterate, I believe anyone should be allowed here providing the abide by they rules. If we seriously engaged in the very censorship we so detest in others, that would be the one thing that would make me walk.
Why is the moderators forum not public?
Trish for me, it’s the principle that matters. Ok S4ME didn’t court them but there are those here who believe that Afme joining here is somehow a positive signal.
I’m afraid it’s not. It’s just an often used tactic of theirs to give the impression of engaging with patients while in reality they have thrown us (and continue to do so) under the bus enough times for us to have woken up to the fact that in their present form they are unredemeeble.
Indeed, the way i see it (and most disagree) is if they have not changed how is giving them more ammunition to use against us going to benefit us?