As
@Trish said: "pissed off!"
I worked and exercised for 6 years before diagnosed - all the while getting sicker and sicker. Exercise included: aerobics, running, and walking, all done several times per week.
For over 2 decades with ME, I have tried, and for the most part succeeded to walk about 30 minutes per day. This has not banished the ME.
I'm with
@chrisb - the time lag between "childhood trauma" and ME can be decades. There is no proof of any
connection between ME and any long ago childhood trauma.
And, anything goes as a "triggering
trauma".
Really, maybe these people should go into
writing fiction; oh wait, they already are!
Want to get paid even if you're often wrong? Become a weather forecaster, or a
psychiatrist.
I think some in the BPS field dislike a great many people, and see themselves as quite separate and superior. I think the names
used for categories of patients on this video are no better than calling someone an ahole, and other such derogatory terms. It's just name calling in shiny
wrapping paper.
This nonsense about "Your symptoms are real" goes back a long ways. Much further back I would say than my experience of several decades ago with a terrible dental
abscess that my dentist, often smelling of
booze couldn't diagnose. The resulting terrible pain led me to a GP who said "Your pain is real. Could you take a holiday? And, here are some pills to make you feel
better." The pain of course, continued, the
"happy pills" didn't work. A subsequent visit to that same dentist finally sorted out my quest for help, as yes, an abscess was finally confirmed after 3 or 4 weeks of
suffering. These health "care" professionals had me convinced my pain was psychosomatic, until I realized the pills weren't helping and that a re-try with the dentist was in order. However, I should
have gone to another dentist. One who didn't drink alcohol during office hours, and was hopefully more competent.
Regarding consults with health professionals new to me, I have had so many negative experiences now re ME in conjunction with medical attitudes about this disease, that I feel inclined to omit it in discussion. However I am stymied as to what to say if asked, "How is your general health?" I don't want to lie, especially as the info is on my chart - then I will be seen as a liar. Really, pwME are damned if we do and damned if we don't!
ETA: fixed typo - well, there's maybe more than one, but I don't see them, ha!