this.At least this settles they can't be trusted for anything, can't actually learn. No matter what, they will keep doing the same things, for their own purposes. They simply don't understand what the words mean, and it's become clear that illness is an experience that absolutely has to be experienced in order to be understood, as fully as it's almost always needed to actually play an instrument in order to be a musician. And the only exception would be conductors, and they usually are musicians anyway. Just knowing about sheet music doesn't make one a musician.
Obviously, though. It's possible to go from being wrong to getting it right, but not from a position of denial. There is no half-way between reality and denial of reality that works out in real life.
The problem is that they can't even if they look at it, but are blinded and actually can't see anything other than their beliefs instead of what actually is in front of their eyes when they see a patient or this.I feel like BACME need to see this.
I still keep doing it. Every time I feel a tiny bit better, able to do a bit more, I keep overshooting and making myself worse even though I only ever slightly increase. And every time I draw back it stabilizes. It's maddening.In my minds eye I’m seeing a pie chart of how much of a document refers to “increase” of activity (say, 25%) vs how many pwME have “found” their established baseline (say, 10%) then increased beyond it by choice, without consequence (about 1%)
The greatest work for pwME is getting used to having ME and pacing, it takes years and years. The “increasing” by choice part is so very rare and unusual and it gets talked up so much in these documents. It creates a psychological pressure that you should be able to, also there is the tantalising unspoken temptation of (whisper it….)maybe getting back to normal?
On their misperceptions of their intentions.and they always judge themselves based on their intentions,
As per usual the most annoying thing is it is members only.BACME AGM 2026, Janauary 26, 18:00 BST
Go to,
https://bacme.info/event/2026-agm/
Doesn’t give much info.
(I've not looked at the BACME constitution.)Joining BACME
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