Cheshire
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
Although talking of Nassar's victims, a lot is relevant to our situation, IMO.
That is something that is at the core of the BPS theory I think, we must have done something wrong that caused us to be sick, because if we hadn't we wouldn't be sick. We must have broken some unwritten rule. So anything that could be seen as a rule breach in our life is interpreted as a potential cause of our illness.
http://www.espn.com/espnw/voices/article/22172044/why-victim-blame-why-larry-nassar-shows
Since sociologist William Ryan wrote the book "Blaming the Victim" in 1971, researchers have studied the phenomenon of pointing the finger at the victim and not the criminal, particularly in cases of sexual assault and domestic violence. Victims are often accused of contributing to their own rapes by dressing provocatively, drinking alcohol or going home with a man they don't know well. Battered women are accused of provoking their attackers or deserving the abuse because they stuck around too long. Post-trauma behavior is also questioned, with a largely uninformed public presuming that the existence of behaviors they wouldn't expect from a "real victim" must mean the victim is misrepresenting what happened.
This secondary victimization occurs not as a result of abject cruelty by those who victim blame, but rather a desire to protect the belief that one won't meet the same fate as long as he or she doesn't make the same so-called mistakes.
"If you tell primarily young women, 'You need to follow these rules,' then, one, you create rule makers and rule breakers," Canaff says. "And the assumption is that, if you follow the rules you're going to be OK, and if you don't follow them, it's your fault."
That is something that is at the core of the BPS theory I think, we must have done something wrong that caused us to be sick, because if we hadn't we wouldn't be sick. We must have broken some unwritten rule. So anything that could be seen as a rule breach in our life is interpreted as a potential cause of our illness.
http://www.espn.com/espnw/voices/article/22172044/why-victim-blame-why-larry-nassar-shows