I agree it seems to be really only feasible for someone with mild or the milder end of moderate to be able to meet the demands, with the added constraints that they would need to be in the relatively luxurious position of not needing to expend all their limited energy caring for a family and/or earning a living.
My concern on 'balance' is about this resulting in a preponderance of people with either only mild experience, or experience of significant improvement or recovery, giving a skewed impression to researchers they talk to that mildness and recovery are the norm.
I guess we have to trust that the CMRC will be able to find 20 people sufficiently scientifically literate, with first hand experience across severity levels and with time and energy to devote to this without any financial recompense.
I have no real idea of the contribution the PAG make, as there seems to be little or no reporting back on the direction or outcome of all these hours of dedicated service.
I don't want to sound cynical. I am not in any way criticising the individuals involved, in fact the opposite, I am hugely grateful that they are prepared and able to serve the community. But given the huge needs for volunteers of ME/CFS charities and organisations locally, nationally and internationally for patients and carers to participate in and help to run patient organisations, advocacy, research, and groups such as this forum, it seems like a lot for MERC to expect the volunteer services of 20 people, some of which might be better spent in other ways.
100% agree. If you haven't experienced severe or very severe and haven't had ME/CFS for a certain length of time with a variety of different life situations (because you might be fortunate and accepted for a few years, and generally be OK with the say 2-3yrs 'whilst you recover'...... and
then it gets boring, problematic, not temporary etc) you can't understand much of these real issues than can crop up with these. EDIT: I don't know how to put this well, but it is stuff you can't anticipate or imagine easily because of how the being boxed-in energy/health-wise accumulates on issues over time (one issue creates another too)
I don't understand the 'recovered' - the idea of one out of 20 is still generous based on the stats, and there is a worry that people get carried away when they have a good few years (or perhaps were one of the fortunate who did recover but don't realise that) and attribute more to certain things than might be relevant. Those who became severe and spent 5-10 hard years winding it back to less severe a different matter altogether.
You can't imagine severe when only ever moderate/mild much better than someone genuinely trying but who never had ME/CFS can imagine mild/mod, it is all academic thought exercise and misses things you only know and notice if you've been there because of the nature of the quicksand.
I worry when demands are talked about as having to be carers and only mild. One massive oversight in understanding the fundamentals of what the condition is they are studying has been 'splitting the spectrum' (given anyone
might theoretically get more and more severe if put in enough over-exertion over enough time), with support of 'advocate' or rep maybe, but otherwise you exclude what could be (I think is) a significant group of those who are pretty severe and don't have a supportive partner or relative and are commonly unheard because of how impossible that makes for as even a basic life situation re: access etc. And because of that needs to be represented.
Similar to those who are mild/mod and have little support and are having to work - won't have the spare energy to participate unless something helped to change this balance (advocate support and/or financial/working with employer to allow the space to participate), and yet are again probably the more common group and situation (before it all ends up making them more severe) given current set-ups and again a highly pertinent situation to represent.
Some of these boxes might be ticked by the odd person who had these but are now in better situations, but the nature of the illness is such that I'm not sure how many who've really been on those front lines will have recent enough experience and yet be in a changed situation enough without some bridging support.