@Jonathan Edwards
I think I fit into both your groups 2 and 3 of people who may have EDS but with symptoms of ME.
I have mitral valve prolapse and regurgitation, diagnosed in 2016. I was initially told I needed open heart surgery, but am being managed for the time being conservatively.
I also have a diagnosis of hypermobility, but not so far hEDS, although a NHS Consultant for yet another condition has suggested that they are all linked under a syndrome mentioning EDS including ME, and has referred me on his own initiative to a NHS geneticist. Whether the EDS issue will be resolved then I don’t know.
As far as I am concerned I have ME, diagnosed 2008 but probably existing mildly since 1986. PEM is my worst symptom as well as breathlessness and OI. I take betablockers which has reduced tachycardia. I think the biggest help would have been a full skilled assessment for dysautonomia. It is becoming increasingly hard for the cardiologists to know whether the breathlessness is linked to the heart or the ME.
I do not want to have a CCI diagnosis but have symptoms which could relate to neck instability, and of course I may have EDS which has a link.
It is all a terrible muddle.
As far as I am concerned I should have been properly physically assessed when diagnosed with ME. At the very least I should have been treated with respect and accurate knowledge by all the doctors to whom I was referred.
Instead two Consultants told me there was no such thing as ME, and a third that “ people with ME are mad but you are not mad”. His testing for POTS was completely inadequate so I was told I didn’t have POTS. It seems that his preconceptions about ME overrode the diagnostic process.
I’m pleased to say that all the doctors I see currently accept the existence of ME, and take it into account in my health history.
But it is still a terrible muddle.
eta: I may have been inaccurate in separating hypermobility and hEDS. I wrote from memory but this area seems particularly confusing. Need to read more.