MSEsperanza
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
I'm definitely not saying that Garner received no sensible comments from patients or that the ME community deserves some sort of collective blame for that appalling e-mail he was sent.
Thanks for spelling that out.
I'm constantly making mistakes in how I present my views and trying to learn from that, but it felt like around some peoples' responses to Garner there wasn't much concern about making things worse. Maybe just encouraging more discussions about this and likely costs/benefits will help encourage a bit more thought and caution?
Can relate to the part about making mistakes and trying to learn.
Maybe just encouraging more discussions about this and likely costs/benefits will help encourage a bit more thought and caution?
More discussion about this would certainly be good.
Also, I think when pointing out things that we find problematic it's good to refer to an actual post/ argument/ point by linking or citing.
A problem I see is that many forum members are either extremely busy with most urgent / existential advocacy work (including maintaining the forum) or their health has been declining further and it seems often both happens together. So capacities to reflect on how to better communicate seem to be scarce.
Perhaps it would be also helpful to discuss how we can attract more volunteers -- maybe that's a bit related to how we communicate with people both on and outside the forum. I just don't see that people have even the capacities to do that (trying to find volunteers).
I will post some links to related discussions and suggestions later.
[This post has been sleeping in my drafts folder for a while and now mainly posted to appreciate your posts Esther12 and hope I will able to add some links to discussions and further thoughts later.]
Last edited: