Dolphin
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
And there are situations in medicine where allowing adult patients make their own choices is not the best option for patients e.g. anorexia nervosa, patients who are suicidal, etc. Generally these are mental health conditions of one sort or another which is why I think a distinction between mental and physical conditions can be useful: we don’t tend to override the choices of adults who don’t have mental health conditions; we also trust their descriptions of their symptoms, etc. more. And mental health professionals are more accustomed to ignoring patients' preferences, distrusting patients’ testimony as unreliable, etc. than other healthcare professionals.Indeed & the worst of it is that they kid themselves that they are the ones being supremely ethical & with our best interests at heart.
They think they are my mother, whom when i was a toddler would rename vegetables that i said i didnt like (that she knew i did as i had eaten & enjoyed them before, before i knew what they were called - thus peas became 'petit pois'
"I dont like peas"
"Oh i know you dont like peas Jem, no i would never give you peas because i know you dont like them, but these are not peas these are petit pois they are veerrry special, a real treat, & although they look a bit like peas they taste very different, they taste quite sweet not like peas, peas are yuk!"
It seems funny doing that to a 4yr old who did like peas but was just flexing her 'i get to choose' muscles & would have eaten biscuits for every meal given the choice (ie my mum did know whats best for me & manipulated me ethically with my best interests at heart). But assuming the same dynamic is at play when you are an adult psychiatrist talking about and to, a competent adult patient, just reveals that you think we are toddlers and you are the all knowing parents.
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