ukxmrv
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
I found this example to be disappointing if that is the best they can do
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"Case example: adjusting expectations and building back up
Mary had experienced symptoms of M.E. for many years and had not worked for more than 12 months. She was
supported by SEE M.E. to explore her perceptions around returning to work, the kinds of work and use of skills
that she found satisfying, and how she could manage disclosing M.E. to an employer.
Mary began volunteering and with the help of prepared notes was able to negotiate a manageable number of
hours.
“The first part of the journey to where I am now was a process of readjusting my expectations and coming to
terms with being unwell. The holistic approach taken by the specialist M.E. clinic I attended helped me by looking
not only at how to improve my physical health but also encouraging me to consider new goals and a new way
forward, including thinking about work.
“I had missed working very much and it made such a difference to have support from a team who understood the
kind of barriers I might be facing in terms of returning to work. We were able to work together on coming up with
some positive solutions.
“Volunteering helped me to get out and about when I felt that I had lost a lot of confidence, and to get a sense of
how much I could do and what I would really like to do. I retrained in web development and editing so that I had
practical skills I could use to work from home as a freelancer.
“I think what I found most helpful was the practically applicable nature of the advice in regards to how managing
the condition fitted into real-life situations. I have felt much more able to broach the subject of my illness which
has, in itself, relieved large amounts of the anxiety associated with it. While I believe I was reaching a point of
acceptance in regards to my relationship with the condition I believe that attending the course and the advice I
received during the sessions was the necessary spark I needed to overcome that hurdle and as a result has helped
me move on with my life.”
A month after starting the volunteer role, Mary and her manager agreed that she was ready to increase her hours
and take on another shift."
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The person with ME is now trapped in an unpaid volunteering role that she could have found herself easily (I know because I have been able to volunteer in decades past when going through a mild spell)
and she has also expended energy (and I assume money) on retraining into a role (home based web designer) that is just about as rare as unicorns (to be able to get a proper living) in a market that is flooded with disabled people, students and parents and undercut from web designers abroad.
I think this may be the same organisation that did find a web job for one applicant but I know this market and how rare and unlikely this is.
See M.E seems not to understand the job market and they have now put this unfortunate woman in a position of wasting her time, energy and strength on pointless form ticking activities.
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"Case example: adjusting expectations and building back up
Mary had experienced symptoms of M.E. for many years and had not worked for more than 12 months. She was
supported by SEE M.E. to explore her perceptions around returning to work, the kinds of work and use of skills
that she found satisfying, and how she could manage disclosing M.E. to an employer.
Mary began volunteering and with the help of prepared notes was able to negotiate a manageable number of
hours.
“The first part of the journey to where I am now was a process of readjusting my expectations and coming to
terms with being unwell. The holistic approach taken by the specialist M.E. clinic I attended helped me by looking
not only at how to improve my physical health but also encouraging me to consider new goals and a new way
forward, including thinking about work.
“I had missed working very much and it made such a difference to have support from a team who understood the
kind of barriers I might be facing in terms of returning to work. We were able to work together on coming up with
some positive solutions.
“Volunteering helped me to get out and about when I felt that I had lost a lot of confidence, and to get a sense of
how much I could do and what I would really like to do. I retrained in web development and editing so that I had
practical skills I could use to work from home as a freelancer.
“I think what I found most helpful was the practically applicable nature of the advice in regards to how managing
the condition fitted into real-life situations. I have felt much more able to broach the subject of my illness which
has, in itself, relieved large amounts of the anxiety associated with it. While I believe I was reaching a point of
acceptance in regards to my relationship with the condition I believe that attending the course and the advice I
received during the sessions was the necessary spark I needed to overcome that hurdle and as a result has helped
me move on with my life.”
A month after starting the volunteer role, Mary and her manager agreed that she was ready to increase her hours
and take on another shift."
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The person with ME is now trapped in an unpaid volunteering role that she could have found herself easily (I know because I have been able to volunteer in decades past when going through a mild spell)
and she has also expended energy (and I assume money) on retraining into a role (home based web designer) that is just about as rare as unicorns (to be able to get a proper living) in a market that is flooded with disabled people, students and parents and undercut from web designers abroad.
I think this may be the same organisation that did find a web job for one applicant but I know this market and how rare and unlikely this is.
See M.E seems not to understand the job market and they have now put this unfortunate woman in a position of wasting her time, energy and strength on pointless form ticking activities.