But the reality is, as you obviously know far too well, that people are suffering and dying, and they need help now.
This is absolutely true. Which is why I agree with
@Jonathan Edwards 110% upthread. A letter from the Grand Poo Bah of Medicine (if such a thing existed) is not going to get patients domiciliary care. It is not going to get them parenteral feeding. It is not going to get them home care service. It is not going to get them disability benefits. It is not going to get them A&Es/ERs that aren't torture chambers. Even if tomorrow someone were to have a breakthrough in ME/CFS akin to Jo's with regard to Rituxan, there are still going to be patients who are not going to respond to treatment and are STILL going to need these things. But such a breakthrough is not going to happen tomorrow because science is slow. God knows I've spent two decades in a bedroom wishing it wasn't, but it is. And I have found it tremendously disheartening that the ME/CFS community has spent decades fixating on The Great Scientific Breakthrough that is going to give everyone their life back rather than setting about the work of dealing with the material/clinical needs that we have
right now.
First,
can we stop acting so defensive about whether ME/CFS is psychosomatic or not? There is no objective evidence to support that behavioral therapies work in this condition---including (especially?!) in research done by the very researchers who believe (but can't prove!) that it does. The more we keep waving around the latest scientific study (and DecodeME is sublime even if it's not the most intuitive to grasp) and insisting it's finally proof that it's not all in our head, the more we're in a "methinks the lady doth protesteth too much" situation. I can't count the number of times I've seen media reports where a well-meaning patient advocate or HCP is talking about ME/CFS and then says something along the lines of "so that shows this isn't 'all in the head.'" Well, if whoever was reading/watching that didn't think about it being all in the head before, they are now!
Patients simply need clinical care, regardless of whether the reasons are psychological or biological (even though we all know all of it is biology). They have no evidence that withholding parenteral feeding is beneficial. We have, what, sixteen dead patients in the last decade demonstrating that withholding parenteral feeding kills? They have no evidence that de-sensitization therapy works. We have thousands of patients who say it makes them worse. They may have loads of studies suggesting psychotherapy works but not a shred of it is based on objective data. What's the number needed to treat to achieve what outcome? Your GP will give a deer in the headlights look should you ever ask because no such data exists!
We are also not the only patient group dealing with many of these issues. Many conditions leave patients homebound. Many conditions leave patients needing home care. Many conditions cause varying degrees of issues with sensory stimuli.
This is where collaborating with other patient organizations to get that care could be very useful. Not only do larger numbers have more power, but working with other patient groups means we would have allies so we don't look like just a niche group of whiners.
For the first decade or so, I so wanted vindication. I wanted to see Simon Wessley marched down the Mall "
shame, shame, shame" style. I wanted every specialist who blew me off to tearfully apologize. Even more so, I wanted to be me again. I wanted my life back. I wanted a treatment that would get me out of this fucking bedroom. Yet eventually I realized that there are any number of things that could have landed me in this bedroom with even less hope of leaving. But if I was stuck in this bedroom while I waited for science to come to my rescue (and even more so if it couldn't), I needed health care at home. I needed an income to live on. I needed a caregiver. Hell, I needed a home! As a community we owe it to each other to spend at least as much effort pursuing these things as begging the great and the good in medicine to please, Sir, can I have some more recognition?
(It should go without saying but I'll say it anyway: we also need more good science! Clinical care and scientific research are not mutally exclusive and often feed on each other---yet another good point Jo made in another thread about university clinics!)