Thanks for writing so powerfully
@Utsikt.
If you or your research team ask these questions of the parents, you can and will do lasting damage to the children. Most parents are not Hutan - they don’t know any better. I didn’t either before I got sick. The questions will negatively influence the GP, the parents and their child. It is unethical and it’s harmfull.
It's really hard for parents to understand.
I had the benefit ( a costly benefit, but one nevertheless) of developing ME/CFS at exactly the same time as both my son and daughter. At the time we became sick, we were all mentally well and enjoying life. My daughter recovered over a couple of years, naturally, without doing any of the BPS interventions, so that gave me another point of reference. It has surely been many many times easier for me to reject the BPS nonsense than it would be for most parents.
And even so, when this specific project that Chris is associated with came up, I thought it was better than most other projects competing for funding at that time. I probably still do. At the time when it was still a proposal, that is when I first said to people 'it seems that giving up our psychological data is the price we have to pay for a decent biological study'. And, even so, at that time, I supported the project and promoted it.
Even though my family had been harmed by the same psychological researchers, I hoped that maybe they were different now. I did not know that a survey that assesses somatisation would be given to the parents of the young people.
Would I support a project that makes such demands of its participants now? No. Would I ask much much harder questions of any ME/CFS project before supporting it? Yes. Would I, at this time, support any new ME/CFS study involving young people? Probably not.
But, I too, even with all the experiences that should have made me more aware, have made mistakes in relation to knowing who to trust, what to support and how doggedly to ask questions.