We all agree that denying care due to the woo can’t be blamed on the patients. But I think we can also acknowledge that limiting the woo would be beneficial for everyone - and the patients and advocates have influence here which they should use responsibly.
All of this is independent of another argument for limiting the woo: it’s not good science or medicine. So regardless of if you agree with my line of reasoning above, the conclusion is the same: anyone involved in ME/CFS should distance themselves from the woo.
There is no plausible way of doing that, though, so the whole issue is moot. It's not possible to reach even a majority, let alone influence them, and it wouldn't change a damn thing anyway, if that excuse went away completely, it would simply be replaced by another, and if that excuse went away too, so would it, and so on and on.
And as an excuse it could actually look plausible if the psychobabble wasn't so completely dominant and unchallenged. A minority of a large population says things that are not backed by evidence, and we get collective punishment for it, all of which is illegal. The health care systems and the institutions of medicine openly promote and implement, to massive harm, blatant pseudoscience. Those things are not remotely the same, they are in fact comically apart from one another.
We know for a fact that none of this makes any difference because of LC. When LC started, those suffering from it were very eager to separate themselves from us and all of this. And they did, and it did them no good, they were just as gaslighted and discriminated against. It makes absolutely zero difference, and it doesn't matter what excuses are offered in secret behind closed doors about it.
If every single thing happened correctly, if we managed to not only reach but convince every single person suffering from ME/CFS to follow this and 'behave correctly' for years, it literally wouldn't change a damn thing. Let's say it happened, and we let it fly for, I don't know, 2-5 years, to wait for all this clearly pent-up resentment at having their expertise challenged to go away, what is the most realistic scenario?
"You know, we don't hear much about those problems anymore. Now that you mention it, I don't think I or any of my colleagues have even seen a single case of this so-called illness, so I guess the fad has finally died down."