T&O
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
Wow, not my experience.I hear you too T&O. When so many people are clearly telling us we are just imagining our illness, it is not surprising that we are grateful to the first person who is caring and seems to have knowledge.
I think Ros Vallings and ANZMES materially set back the understanding of ME/CFS in New Zealand. Vallings hardened views that ME/CFS is a psychosomatic condition in a number of ways. Hopefully she no longer directly influences things, but unfortunately the harm she caused is going to go on for a long time yet. We aren't building on her work. Instead we are having to try to undo the ideas that she gave to health professionals and people with ME/CFS and their families. And it's really hard.
Vallings, ANZMES and others have contributed to us now not being much further ahead in our understanding of ME/CFS than we were 20 or 30 years ago. People are still chasing the supplement or the practice that will be the key to some small improvement, pretty much the same ones that were being tried all those years ago.
Anyway... I'm glad that something she told you helped you.
(After checking over various RV suggested eating a little salt on a cracker say for morning tea and/or afternoon tea as it appeared that our ME bodies didnt process salt correctly… whether or not you agree ,how is that psychosomatic ?).My then family and I were never led to think that.
I was actually searching out salty foods at the time without knowing why …
My point with the social worker was that they went from thinking it was a psychological “lazy” illness to understanding it was a serious and debilitating illness that was only just beginning to be investigated.
Perhaps my befuddled struggling brain has misunderstood some things here.
-Dare I ask what “ways”?
Go ahead ,slam dunk me !
(-Im obviously not a health professional so assume youve had alot more to deal with Hutan).
While I too detest that old nugget of not being taken seriously (yes, ongoing within my own extended family) , can we blame those who thought the earth was flat when they hadnt the knowledge, means or abilities of today ?
Doesnt history change as more is understood ?.