Thanks for sharing.
This lack of curiosity and engagement baffled me for a long time. It infuriated me at times too. I was incensed by the flippant attitude of the Infectious Diseases doctors at Liverpool in dishing out 'advice' about suggesting I try CBT/GET. It was just wot they did. And they were closed to any discussion that this might be in anyway anything other that helpful, useful etc.
Even the consultant psychologist leading the cfs therapy service told them frequently that they did not offer GET since 2005. And cbt/other therapies/pacing where appropriate and only supportive, not aimed at cure. Ironically I was trained in CBT and could see that there was no evidence base. It was something for the ID doctors to refer too and to allow them to discharge. No curiosity or follow up. No support for my GP. Merely a somewhat misleading letter to my GP confirming diagnosis and telling them I'm fat and lazy, and unwilling to engage. No mention that I thought their support suggestions had no credible evidence base.
The lack of curiosity and interest is I think largely a self protective behavioural and psychological avoidance bias/response. If they don't look, they can avoid the scale and horror of the situation. It avoids them approaching psychological discomfort and distress. It also absolves them of the need 'to do something' if they don't know. When they do look, perhaps it is too big, too scary, too overwhelming and they opt out. Flight and freeze responses.
Ironically pwME are hypothesised that they are fear avoidant of activity. Perhaps the medical professional needs to take a wee look in the mirror.
Without interest, curiosity and knowledge nothing much is going to change.
We need curiosity and interest from trained minds to have light bulb moments. The more persistent doctors and researchers are the more likely newer ideas that can be tested will come to light. This is one reason I find it frustrating that, for example, rheumatology is now distancing itself from diagnosis and care of FMS patients. They are now diagnosed in NHS by senior physios. If there is little or no medical interaction or interest, how is anyone going to figure out how to understand and solve a medical problem like FMS? Or ME. Similar diagnosis and medical discharge from NHS for pwME. No follow up, no development, no engagement. How does this change? I suspect with biomarker and/or credible, useful treatment. But how does the medical professional get to this point if it is largely disinterested? How can this change?
Could I get yours and anyone else who might have some perspective on it about the comment earlier on said by a witness that was something along the lines of 'it was unusual she had mental capacity because brain fog normally means many/most with severe ME don't' ?
I find this comment incredibly worrying for a number of reasons, and then I add in the catalogue of things that happened like her being put on an eating disorders ward, the gut-brain and functional blather and people talking about avoiding 'medicalising'.
But to go back to this specific issue: I thought that the mental health act was in place for those who did not have capacity to understand and make decisions. It is not intended to be a test at a point in time dictated by someone else where said person might have had light, noise and over-exertion and they get asked questions and tested on how well they seem to speak. Under that situation you'd have anyone with a terrible flu who got woken up in the middle of a deep sleep staring at bright lights being drawn under it.
Saying 'I can't think right now but could you come back after I've slept or leave some notes for me to look over' should certainly be counting as sensible adjustments and not at all as any indication of capacity.
Even though I've been worried about what has been moved under the term mental health when it for example is neuro and cognitive eg slowness but not distorted thinking it should not have allowed all norms not to be well aware of not being inaccurate and discriminatory based on not being able to differentiate and understand these differences - just thinking someone seems to speak slowly always used to be well-known as having nothing necessarily to do with them being allowed to make their own decisions etc.
In fact it isn't supposed to be catching out people whose speech is affected for example after stroke but are able to make their own decisions, or even those who have an illness that is a form of 'locked in'.
I thought it was very specifically something that was to only cover people who were unable to understand in a sensible timeframe the risks and benefits of decisions, or whose behaviour might be very risky to others.
How could it happen that just ill people could get drawn under something without a heck of a lot more political and legal debate being required because this just widens the scope hugely beyond what it was ever precisely intended for, dragging in by definition potentially all range of conditions and people who I don't think it was put together for unless it is only being used on people over whom there is also already a stigma (and still then it is supposed to have nothing to do with that)?
And just like putting someone under arrest or work performance etc continually would be stressful, it shouldn't be something that so many players are allowed to be so muddied about that it is happenning left, right and centre to those who shouldn't be covered by it with observation most normal healthy people wouldn't allow because it's a 'someone sneezed wrong/worded something in a way that was misunderstood' situation by the looks with the notes that are going on by people who should have been focused on compassionate care (which involves empahty ie the opposite of this attitude) actively it seems looking for things to catch them out on like FII.
Am I the only one who is finding it disturbing that noone has pathed out and blue-printed the effectively hostile and risky environment these I don't know what they are if they aren't stigma (probably called good intentions or 'I didn't know') that someone in this situation is having thrown at them ? It certainly sounds like the insinuations from those who wrote the old guidelines and pushed certain materials, and basic bigotry some individuals just bring from themselves, was weaponising every element and power of the mental health label, whilst desperately looking for justification of it, over or maybe at the same time as treating the problem in hand, but thereby causing all sorts of extra problems.
Does anywhere anything look at the cumulative harm all of this does, and what the receiving end experiences/how it affects their care and health?