Whitney Dafoe of Palo Alto hasn’t spoken in nine years. He hasn’t eaten a bite of food or sipped water in nearly as long. But at 39, Dafoe writes eloquently about the debilitating and largely ignored illness he shares with millions.
“I like to compare the state I’m in now to staying up for two nights in a row while fasting, then getting drunk,” he wrote
on the blog he uses to tell the world about living with his nearly unpronounceable disease: myalgic encephalomyelitis/chronic fatigue syndrome, or ME/CFS, for short. “Fatigue is much too mild a word.”
Dafoe was a globe-hopping photographer in 2004 when, at 21, he developed a persistent lightheadedness after exercise. In India five years later, he caught a “strange cold,” then battled pneumonia in Calcutta. Dafoe was diagnosed in 2012 with ME/CFS — and considers each prior illness a likely suspect in causing it.
The nonprofit National Academy of Medicine estimates that 836,000 to 2.5 million people in the U.S. alone have the disease — most of them undiagnosed.