Dear
@Liv aka Mrs Sowester,
If it were a matter of reaching out to ordinary people I can see that make sense. But my concern here is a purely pragmatic one. Parents reaching out to
paediatricians emotionally is pretty guaranteed to confirm the paediatrician's prejudice that the BPS people are right and parents are over-emotional. All paediatricians either have this prejudice to start with or they are already converted to the cause. Neither group is going to be won over, I fear.
I think this is what people call playing the ball not the man. If you want to achieve something it is important to keep in mind the best method of achieving it, not to be sidetracked by scoring points against enemies.
I don't entirely disagree with you
@Jonathan Edwards, but I'd imagine paediatricians must be quite used to parents being very emotional when it comes to their sick children, whatever the ailment.
I'd assume parents who are logical and unemotional when their children are very unwell are probably in quite a small minority. I know that a social worker would flag up an unemotional parent as being of concern; cold fish parent, emotionally neglectful primary carer = attention seeking child, take it into care and make it do GET for it's own good!
Damned if you do, damned if you don't, the BPS brigade will get you every which way.
It's not a letter I would write or share, attacking Esther Crawley is playing into her victim narrative and putting hyperlinks in a printed letter perhaps isn't the greatest move, but in this post-truth era emotion seems to be trumping logic fairly frequently. Hell, Esther Crawley seems to be winning over 'hearts and minds' with her appeals to emotion. The health care professionals who attend her talks aren't asking for references to back up her claims. They're falling hook line and sinker for her 'grown-ups do the right thing, granddaddy was a fighter pilot, won't somebody think of the children' simpering routine.
Maybe we're missing a trick if we only provide argument in a style that would persuade ourselves? We're already persuaded.
Maybe we should be analysing successful ME advocacy campaigns and working out the golden ratio of facts/emotion and trying to repeat that. Unrest has gone down very well with health care professionals, Jen didn't pull any emotional punches.
@Robert 1973's Blowin' in the Wind was also very effective in message delivering to healthies.
Obviously persuading some groups calls for cold hard unemotional logic, NICE being the most obvious, but I reckon gently pulling the odd heartstring will help the message sink in most other settings.