As an autistic introvert from a family of introverts, I can happily confirm that it doesn't resemble PEM in any way. Not even a homeopathic-strength hint of it.
For start, it's notobligatory (we'd rather have time to recharge, but can manage without) and going to work every day in a highly social industry never had an accumulating or compounding effect. Those two phenomena are defining aspects of PEM.
That's interesting. As someone with pretty bad social anxiety, even before I developed clear ME/CFS, it felt like exertion to socialize, and would compound. Though I've always felt kind of like an "extrovert trapped by social anxiety". I have high motivation to be socializing, but the anxiety isn't worth it.
I've recently begun to think this, and some other symptoms, like mental fatigue making schoolwork very difficult, were mild/very mild ME/CFS my whole life, which got triggered to moderate-severe by some drugs.
Edit: So maybe not introverts, but I think it is possible that at least some subtypes of social anxiety might have a similar mechanism to ME/CFS. I know a lot of people with SA, including me, lament that one of the most annoying/disabling symptoms is something like mental fatigue in conversation, and inability to think of things to talk about, which makes things super awkward.
And one of the strongest pieces of evidence I see is that in many people with social anxiety, including me, Adderall (temporarily and usually unsustainably) completely eliminates the social anxiety. Could it be that a stimulant is helping so well because social anxiety, in at least this (large) subset of SA sufferers, is a mental fatigue issue?
Of course it could be a totally different fatigue disorder from ME/CFS, the only reason I think it might be related is that I have both, but that could be a coincidence.
This may be straying too far from the thread though, and I might start a new thread if anyone thinks it's worth it.