Thank you so much, all, for your comments. I've had a quick count and since yesterday's programme I've now received more than 1,000 across Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube and email. I didn't expect that.
I've read all the comments here. I really appreciate the encouragement and understand those who've picked holes in what I've said and done. I won't engage in a debate on semantics or specifics as I'm knackered right now! But I did just want to say that those who complain or pick holes should remember I'm just one person trying to come to terms with my ME and doing my best to get coverage to benefit others. I know it's not perfect, but please try to see the good and the progress. Baby steps and all that! I managed to get 10 minutes on ITV News in the Channel Islands last week with the possibility of the coverage being run in other regions, the one hour on BBC Radio 5 Live yesterday, and I'm trying to open doors elsewhere too... but I also need to remember not to do too much as I'm already struggling.
My plan is to develop a podcast which will cover experts, researchers, medics, charities, politicians, policy makers, and 'ordinary' people like me who don't understand all the ins and outs of this dastardly thing but just want to help.
I'll let you know as and when I get it going (but I'm getting married in four weeks - eek - so I really do need to work hard at pacing myself this month).
Sending best wishes to all - and thanks to those who make this a brilliant resourceful, vibrant site. x
Thank you Gary for doing an incredible job. Being diagnosed with ME means a very sharp learning curve and I'm sure people here appreciate that.
Those of us who have been sick for a long time have lived through the equivalent of a silent war for decades. When there is the chance of publicity we hope that this time our voices will be heard.
When I heard your question about how we know so little I thought "finally!".
We can't keep taking "baby steps" or making excuses for why the patient voice isn't heard again. Following on from the ongoing (since the 80's) discussion on what PWME can learn from HIV/AIDS activists. We are not crumbs and we do not deserve crumbs. You didn't deliver crumbs but Radio 5 didn't seem to be willing to answer the question. It turned into yet another lot of patients describing how horrible this disease is (albeit with few calls from the severely affected sadly).
So when 5 Live have you in the studio and you ask the question "why do we know so little about ME" and then the program goes on and it's not answered. Then we feel frustrated as it is worth spending an hour on. The question was spot on.
What you have done, as a new patient, is fantastic. What we need as old survivors (30+ years for me) may be different from what a new patient needs though.
It's a common response to criticism that something is described as a start. We've had research that took ME funding described as a start that will benefit us, publicity that is a start that never turns into anything else. We don't need as a priority for patients any more general awareness raising. It's not contributing to a cure or further research. It seems we are always stuck on the start and then nothing important happens here.
Someone said to me recently that the story of what has happened to patients in the UK would make a great book. Another Osler's Web. Even if someone wrote it we'd still need the publicity to get the story across. I was grateful that you interviewed Jen Brea but there are also living UK patients who could have told the story and lived through it here. The patient from AFME wasn't a good fit and didn't appear to address the question you asked. The answer to your question would need to go into what went terribly wrong with AFME after all.
I hope that you can some how contribute to telling the whole story. Podcasts sound great. They need to be targeted though and maybe the place to start out is the history. You asked "how do we know so little...." and the question was never answered. The podcasts could answer that question.
We older patients can answer that question if someone gives us a platform. There are still living survivors of the Royal Free outbreak as an example. Yesterday's opportunity missed answering the question.
Rest up please. Get married and be kind to yourself more importantly right now. This is all for the future and only if you are able to.