Losing weight and maintaining weight loss isn’t a one and done thing. It’s for the rest of your life.
Eating more than you have reason to believe that you need will never lead to lasting weight loss. It simply isn’t an option.
It’s incredibly demotivating to not lose weight when you restrict your calorie intake, and it’s incredibly difficult to essentially permanently change every aspect of your life because food is so ingrained in it and the social fabric.
But it is the only option that even has a chance or succeeding. Even if there are some metabolic factors that substantially lowers the calorie need for some, eating more than you’d normally need will guarantee a failure to lose weight. It’s an absolute requirement.
Without any further comparison, you can’t just quit hard drugs for a few month or years. You have to quite them for the rest of your life. Excessive food intake is no different and maybe equally challenging.
Which is why I believe that the focus on weight in the shorter term is misguided. The focus should be on maintaining a sustainable calorie intake and finding ways to make that work with your life (society needs to make that easier to achieve). And whatever happens happens wrt weight.
Unless we have studies over 5-10 years with perfect control over the food eaten that shows that they maintain the same weight when they were supposed to be in a not insignificant deficit, we can’t say that healthy weight loss isn’t possible.
It makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint that the body will try to preserve its energy reserves for as long as possible. But does it make sense that the energy reserves can’t eventually be used?