a patient saying "I was in a wheelchair, was symptomatically ME and got better after whatever BPS programme" should not elicit a "Well, you never had ME then "
That sounds very good and I would like to be wholehearted about it. I would be reluctant to tell anyone I did not think they had ME but there are good reasons why we have to consider the matter.
1. There is a script for selling "treatments" to us. It goes "I was very sick, bedridden, in a wheelchair. My sister/ parents/friend/other suggested I try XYZ. I was very sceptical but they kept on and I thought I had nothing to lose. To my amazement I am now well again. I couldn't keep my good fortune to myself so I am now treating other ME patients like me for a large amount of money" Well I added the last bit!
2. Maybe there does exist an illness which matches the BPS idea of ME and FNDs and which can be cured by CBT and GET. That is not ME even if there is a superficial likeness.
3. Before CFS, ME was distinguished from post viral states and EBV cases which lasted for a prolonged time. These tended to resolve in a year or two. The cases of ME where people have recovered and are now climbing mountains with no ill effect are usually people who were very ill at the beginning, bedbound or wheelchair users who had EBV.
It is more common for people who have ME to think they are better but are just in remission. They overdo things and end up worse than before. My own view is it is dangerous to believe ME is curable. It was always said that the most dangerous time with ME was when you felt a bit better as we are so desperate to have a life we do too much even on a small scale.
4. Research has consistently shown that people at the clinics have a 50% chance of not having ME. This means that being told by a doctor that you have ME, especially a BPS one is not terribly reliable. There must be people who get better but never had ME just by that statistic.
Just because someone says they have had ME and are now better does not mean we have to believe them. Let's face it we have all met people who feel they are better than us because they had ME but fought it and are now cured and if we were not so self indulgent we could be cured too.
And we have all met people who say they have ME but do not have any of the symptoms, just fatigue.
It is tricky. I am sure we all worry that a test will be found but we won't be positive. If only a few of us are left will there be anyone to help us fight for a test for our disease? I can see that compassion in the idea of leaving no one behind.
But if someone says they have been completely cured I reserve the right to be sceptical unless I see real proof. Remember Esther Rantzen's daughter who was cured every few years until it was decided she had never had ME? We don't believe every email sent us because of past experience so we don't have to believe something just because someone says it.