I'm also disappointed to see Chris Armstrong
@MelbME on this list. That's not because I think Chris is not good at his job, to the absolute contrary, I would far rather he was using his time researching ME/CFS, and supporting his team to research ME/CFS. That is the way he can contribute most to the future well-being of people with ME/CFS.
Chris is not an expert on clinical guidelines or clinical care or ME/CFS politics or health economics, and, while he has had contact with many people with ME/CFS, he is not an expert in what it is like to live with ME/CFS or to care for a person with ME/CFS either. OMF Australia could have chosen to support people that have as good an understanding of ME/CFS literature as Chris while bringing other knowledge for the role.
The makeup of the board of OMF Australia includes no Australian person with ME/CFS. Yes, there are parents of people with ME/CFS which is something and I thank them for their service, but, no matter how good those people are, there is a risk of paternalism seeping into decision-making if the board does not have a significant proportion of people actually with ME/CFS.
I guess as an academic professor, Chris's views will carry some weight with the NHMRC and that will be a good thing. I find it sad though that OMF Australia had an opportunity to push for well-qualified people with specifically relevant skills including having ME/CFS to be on the guideline committee and chose not to do that.
I take the sentiment, but don't know whether it really is an either-or situation and Chris seems to be someone who genuinely hears what patients say and is doing some good research.
But 100% agree that it is frankly gobsmacking for a guideline to be excluding (which is what not including is) those with the actual condition from the guideline process, rather than centring the whole thing around that experience.
It is even more vital for a condition where research has been so distorted by non-science for so long that those who lived through that are absolutely providing their closest thing to science which is that they at least observed and listened to their own bodies in a way it has been demonstrated (by the very words of the old guideline) those who worked in that old paradigm didn't.
There is no excuse. Because if people are whinging it is somehow too hard then that's laziness and disability bigotry on the part of the organisers and other attendees that they can't even bend to the very central people the guideline is about.
And it should be being set up in such a way that not only can patients participate but that they can do so to their best of ability and health needs. It is called experiential learning, and if the others on the guideline can't do that it's not a good start is it for the attitude of where they are prepared to let such a knowledge-exploring task go, because they've already set limits that are inappropriate.
ANd yes I 100% agree that subbing in 'carers' as if that is the same is absolutely not the same. Certainly not where the carer is not included with the caree 'coming with' and being ensured to have the main voice and vote over said carer and the carer just expanding on those points
for that person in order to save energy (but caree can watch and check it is accurate).
Because yes it is building paternalism in otherwise. NO matter how good the carer is. And should absolutely not be allowed to set example or precedent for a process.
How would a 55yr bloke doctor who gets a heart condition want their mum that never really got who they were and had their own ideas about what they did right or wrong and didn't fully listen to them and communicate it to their friends being in charge of what treatment choices they got 'don't worry I think Fred is probably best to just try eating a bit better first before you go offering him x, he's always been a bit fussy' or a wife suggesting rather than them putting their foot in it eg on a noise thing that perhaps it is a tolerance issue or 'getting grumpy when tired'.
You mightn't get it outright, but every relationship has a spectrum of that underlying things. Even if people get it right it is utter paternalism and psychologisation by putting words in someone else's mouth.
And having a patient alongside to correct it is vital. If only because of the group psychology. Carers can talk well on the things carees wouldn't necessarily be as expert on - the nuts and bolts of making happen what they make happen (for those who don't have to do it themselves despite it being impossible), and patients aren't being subbed in instead of them, so why vice versa?
I know there are some incredible carers who are not like this, but given the power discrepancy how on earth can people check.
And having patients involved to have to look in the eye is an important reminder of what it is supposed to all be about rather than individual's preferred role or career, the applyability of ideas or compromises being a bridge too far re: what it is signing of regarding quality of life dipping even further when you are doing it to someone's face. I'd hope as well others in the group and their attitude to them could make it clear to others where there are some in said group who lose track of those things.