JemPD
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
I am mainly housebound anyway but i have been out several times for various medical/dental appointments & necessary shopping. on a few occasions to a local lakeside just for change scenery/fresh air. In roughly July i stopped wearing mask outside & asking people with me to. We keep distance & i just couldnt sustain it all, it was really affecting my mental health i am so lonely & I just wanted to sit & eat my picnic with my friend & be able to see her face.
Indoors...
I've had to have lots of urgent stuff done on the house - builders to install a new concrete floor, broken unsafe asbestos marley tiles removed in another room & new flooring laid. TWO! new toilets, a boiler fix, & about 5 other smaller things, these were a total nightmare - mainly because of having to get someone to come in & help me clean down everywhere they'd been after they left.
What i find hardest to cope with isnt the measures but other people's attitudes to them. People treating me as if i'm paranoid or crazy. One person in fact was so horrid to me i momentarily wished she'd get severe ME as a result of covid - 'that'll teach you' i thought & quickly repented i wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. But my new carer (who is immunocompromised), said to me that she thought a lot of my behaviour (around hand washing/wiping shopping etc was paranoid) & that she doesnt bother with that & it might well kill her .... as if death were the worst thing that could happen to you after getting a virus.
I couldnt care less if i die, its very severe ME that scares the crap out of me, & when i explained that to her & what very severe ME is, she understood better.
I know lots of other people dont take the measures i take, & thats fine but i am heartily sick of being judged to be 'over the top'/paranoid/stupid whatever because i do. Just because they cant see that someone holding my bath towel up so it rubs on their clothes before i use it, is like me drying my face on their shirt... doesnt mean it isnt real.
Just because they cant see the chain of transfer of virus particles.... that touching the shopping trolley handle, then my bag of sliced bread, then coming in & washing their hands... then touching the (possibly now contaminated) bread bag again, & then getting the actual bread out & touching that to make me a sandwich, is not that far away from wiping a slice of my bread across the trolley handle & then expecting me to eat it. Just because they dont see it & cant envisage it, doesnt mean it isnt real.
Indoors...
Yes this for me too, i have 2 diff carers & a cleaner all who follow these rules, only one does the testing but we all wear FFP2 masks & windows ajar while they're here.We now have our cleaner back working for us since she's also fully vaccinated, careful, does a lateral flow test before she comes, and wears a mask while she's here.
I've had to have lots of urgent stuff done on the house - builders to install a new concrete floor, broken unsafe asbestos marley tiles removed in another room & new flooring laid. TWO! new toilets, a boiler fix, & about 5 other smaller things, these were a total nightmare - mainly because of having to get someone to come in & help me clean down everywhere they'd been after they left.
What i find hardest to cope with isnt the measures but other people's attitudes to them. People treating me as if i'm paranoid or crazy. One person in fact was so horrid to me i momentarily wished she'd get severe ME as a result of covid - 'that'll teach you' i thought & quickly repented i wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. But my new carer (who is immunocompromised), said to me that she thought a lot of my behaviour (around hand washing/wiping shopping etc was paranoid) & that she doesnt bother with that & it might well kill her .... as if death were the worst thing that could happen to you after getting a virus.
I couldnt care less if i die, its very severe ME that scares the crap out of me, & when i explained that to her & what very severe ME is, she understood better.
I know lots of other people dont take the measures i take, & thats fine but i am heartily sick of being judged to be 'over the top'/paranoid/stupid whatever because i do. Just because they cant see that someone holding my bath towel up so it rubs on their clothes before i use it, is like me drying my face on their shirt... doesnt mean it isnt real.
Just because they cant see the chain of transfer of virus particles.... that touching the shopping trolley handle, then my bag of sliced bread, then coming in & washing their hands... then touching the (possibly now contaminated) bread bag again, & then getting the actual bread out & touching that to make me a sandwich, is not that far away from wiping a slice of my bread across the trolley handle & then expecting me to eat it. Just because they dont see it & cant envisage it, doesnt mean it isnt real.