Starrynight
Established Member (Voting Rights)
I'm very sorry to hear that you have extra problems on top of your ME. But what we hear from a lot of people in that position is that their extra problems get dismissed because they already are seen as having a condition that's all in their heads, and so the extra stuff is probably all in their heads too.
My hope is for better treatment from society. I think it's a matter of degree. There are some people who will find an excuse to treat people badly (those prepared to see the sick as parasites); those who don't generally feel that way but who will look down on those whose illnesses are 'all in their heads'; and those who treat all people well with no distinction about cause. I think the latter group is fairly small and the middle group is fairly big. If we can move out of the 'it's all your heads' camp, at least will have two groups treating us well rather than just one.
Regardless of the wisdom of jumping on a thread late in the evening, in the cold light of day I stand by what I said.
Of course the psychogenic assumptions currently widespread aren't helpful. However I suspect that with an official "physical disease" diagnosis that implies a whole soup of symptoms (perhaps without a definitive test), risk of other serious conditions being overlooked would be as great or greater than present.
Your second paragraph talks about wanting better treatment from society. Are you suggesting that throwing the person with, PTSD say, under the metaphorical bus in order to toady up to the kind of bigots who thinks they should just pull themselves together and be more "resilient" is a valid way to do that? I disagree.