Poor maternity tolerated as normal, inquiry says
An inquiry into traumatic childbirths has called for an overhaul of the UK's maternity and postnatal care after finding poor care is "all-too-frequently tolerated as normal".
The Birth Trauma Inquiry heard harrowing evidence from more than 1,300 women - some said they were left in blood-soaked sheets while others said their children had suffered life-changing injuries due to medical negligence.
Women complained they were not listened to when they felt something was wrong, were mocked or shouted at and denied basic needs such as pain relief.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4n1jv7xxpwo
I don’t how to express what I want to say here. This is cruel and tragic beyond words.
You can’t touch with words the experience of putting your life at risk for a pregnancy, only to have the people and institutions that are responsible for keeping you as safe as possible during such a perilous time as a pregnancy turn around and torture you. Putting your own and your unborn child’s life at higher risk, perhaps maiming, perhaps killing, one or both of you.
If through some chance you both should make it through such treatment without permanent physical damage, how will you trust?, Who will you trust? How do you ever seek care again? How do you allow anyone from this realm near your child again if they should sicken? How do you know whether
or not ‘care’ in such a system is more likely to kill or cure them?
How do you make that call?
I think this report makes clear that from the very beginning of life, the medical profession may turn against you. While you attempt to bring forth life into this world the system may crush you, may snuff out life.
Now many people the majority of people, will claim to revere expectant mothers and their soon to be born babies. The reality of an experience in the healthcare system might suggest either people really aren’t being terribly honest about their actual feelings on these matters. Or that those making the medical and administrative and funding decisions, that determine the quality of care available, are differently minded.
It is entirely unsurprising that if our society and the sectors of our society to whom the task is specifically allocated and accepted by, find it simply too burdensome to have to properly care for those who, no matter how far we lean ideologically and non-ironically (all apologies to the originator of the concept) into bootstrap-ism, absolutely cannot take care of themselves while giving birth or being born, that every other person falling temporally and otherwise outside this specific category also cannot be assured that they will be met with kindness and care in moments of vulnerability and peril. Or that something entirely more horrifying isn’t in store for them at the hands of those charged with their care.