But I’ve rarely if ever at all met a doctor who believed PEM, was an existing phenomena that could actually make you physically sicker and sicker if you try to push through it, or that it is any different from normal fatigue brought on by trying to re-condition yourself after an accident or period of acute illness that’s behind you now. So they’re not likely to take any reports of PEM seriously and record them as such. So without counting the one feature of ME that is most helpful in distinguishing it from other conditions, it’s less likely to be diagnosed I’d guess.
This is a really interesting 'nub' of it.
I've had variations of it, but such is the communication style of the professions that I've learned over time you can't trust what you've been led to think, but also whilst they might 'get' something they think is PEM... and of course even I
really also meant PEM, PENE and PESE ie any of the timing-based things.
So it perhaps shows how much work there is to do, and we all really need to nail that one down better. And as you say the more fundamental bit of it being the real 'nub' which is that it isn't that the illness is just that like it is an allergic reaction but that we have energy-limits and if we don't have pretty prompt support to reduce our exertion then we get worse and worse.
My main point of mentioning it on this thread is about prevalence and getting the right people under the right diagnostic category. I also think lots of people who read 'tired all the time' old myths, even have pictures in their head of what people with ME or CFS 'look like' which is very different to eg what the CDC description describes and the PEM/PENE/PESE concept shows and might think that isn't what they have if they actually get good energy then massive symptoms and crashes - and that pattern becomes self-perpetuating. People who think 'I can still do a Park Run every so often so it's not that!, my issue is with aching when I'm in the office MOn-Wed and suddenly having terrible sleep patterns, I seem to get terrible flu every 6weeks'.
And what we think we know on prevalence and gender and age could be completely different if, theoretically, there was some sort of fresh start and census-type diagnostics. Which could certainly maybe help research if it gives a basis for clues and what a representative sample is/common comorbidities etc.
And it would be interesting to map the 'likely alternative diagnoses' to see for example with pain what the different patterns are from Fibro and with cognitive fatigue what the difference is vs FND.. or any other condition, I suspect the sleep thing where people get strange timings or other stuff that is quite dramatic (I think it is part of the PEM thing) might have clues too. Lots of people might have both. Some might have something completely different that has treatment. In that sense I'd describe PEM test as needing people to be able to have at least a week where they are in control of their exertion to test timings vs symptoms etc. But what are those timings?
But yes, I could go on all day about the different patterns I've seen in medical professionals but it isn't all always bad (sometimes starts good if you get in first and then 'culture' influences too) and so the size of that task and what would be being battled against there!
I think we need to begin putting better terms out there to allow for it to be used in diagnosis (the easier and clearer we make it etc...), and for those who are in early stages wondering what they have to understand the difference between different conditions too. Maybe it could begin with us too though. Even pwme never fully know whether when using 'PEM' as a term, we are referring to the limitation of living within that envelope (or not being able to, I know most around me just ignore that), think of it as a crash where they don't see you for a few days, a general concept, or this important scientific thing.