The full title includes a sub-line: "
At 35, I was bedbound with ME – this is how I got my life back
I had been an overachiever, pushing myself to the limit every night. Then suddenly, everything came crashing down
The top of the article notes that:
The idea that fitness should slow down in mid-life might be tempting – but it is also one of the biggest myths. Muscle and strength are just as important in your forties, fifties and sixties as they are in your thirties, when we hit peak muscle mass. Without regular maintenance, the rate of muscle loss and bone weakening will continue to decline, affecting metabolism, heart health and disease risk, and causing a likelihood of injury.
In a new series, we meet mid-lifers who have achieved inspirational levels of fitness to talk about how they did it. Ann Marie, 50, lives in Surrey with her husband, Hugh, and their 13-year-old son.
It has been written about this person by someone else, so I don't know whether the cliches and forming the actual story into the usual cliches were said and owned by the individual being profiled or the writer
opening para:
I was working as head of business development at a
US law firm the day I collapsed, aged 35. My work culture at the time rewarded “working hard and playing hard” which is what I had done for 10 years; continually ignoring my body and just pushing through. ............................. My mind was constantly racing.
And the bits that actually add up with reality are being hidden by terms like recovery being misused so this is an interesting example of how that term is being weaponised by being used inaccurately. Because there are huge numbers of paras between this tiny hidden bit said early on enough that it sounds like it backs up the above of being 'medics said I'd never recover but..'. ...
The GP signed me off work. After about six months, he said, “I think you’ve got ME.” .............................. He said there was no cure and it might take 20 years to recover. Or that I might never recover, and it would be about management.
ANd then only if you read in a very careful way to avoid what feels imposed meaning over what's in there, do you realise that this is 15yrs on. And it was only 2023 where she says she starts to feel better, and there is a heck of a lot else listed that isn't the 'mindset change' claims. Such as microimmunotherapy from Europe being the thing things changed after. And of course at 3yrs and still measuring her energy the term 'recovery' is a reframing.
Before her mission to change things:
I tried to go back to work after a year off, starting with two or three hours once a week. I would build up and then collapse again and be off for weeks. After four years, I was able to work full-time again in business development for law firms, but every six to 12 weeks I would end up back in bed with chronic fatigue. People would say I was overdoing it.
I haven’t been ill since summer 2023. Now I eat very healthily with very little sugar but I can have the odd glass of wine. I exercise moderately; reformer pilates, running, gym, weights and tennis. I instinctively measure my energy and choose where to spend it and that will probably be the case for the rest of my life, but I am so much better.
And as above - I assume she no longer works in a full time job, But retrained in the Health Coach Academy as a speaker.
Without knowing more I don't know how much is not 'recovery' but taking the same illness level and having to attend a job with fixed hours full-time, and how if that commitment is removed and not replaced with other stress, then it isn't making you iller by requiring exertion above your threshold.
Rewording that to mindset and choice, is an interesting reframing.
If you aren't in a fortunate situation not being able to continue a full-time job isn't recovery or an option someone has chosen or can choose due to finances. I'm a bit shocked at who the inews/writer thinks the readership are as it whiffs of something. Like the Neil Riley MEA magazine issue.
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