Lou B Lou
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
@Dania Ala - I know you have designed your study for a certain age range, 18-25, but I wonder if interviewing people with ME aged, say, 25 and over, who have been sick with ME since they were children and are now adults, could be informative. I know that would be a memory thing, a retrospective, but would provide insight into growing up with ME.
I have seen very insightful accounts by adults' with ME about their experiences as children/youngsters with ME. Unfortunately those accounts often include the very real pressure families are under from schools re attendance, and from social services. Families, mothers especially, being suspected of encouraging, inducing illness in their children and referred to social services for investigation, apparently 1 in 5 families of children with ME.
'Carol Monaghan MP - Children with ME - House of Commons ME debate'
Also, interviewing people with ME (pwME) who are beyond the identity forming stage *may* reduce some of the hazards, likely harms, which may result from young adults being interviewed about ME and the identity forming thing, and everything about it, which includes all the disbelief, the losses, the disease denial, the loss of friendships, loss of education possibilities, loss of the possibility of fulfilling life ambitions, loss of relationships potential, family members' disbelief etc etc.
I suspect you are not aware of all the harms that are inflicted on pwME by the medical/society denial of ME, and medical/society abuses of pwME.
Though really, losing one's life to a serious illness, an illness which is perpetually and very publicly disputed, denied, gaslighted, and actually vilified, creates the most massive psychological pressures whatever age the pwME is. PWME who became sick in their 20s/30's/40's etc also face a devastating loss of identity and have to rebuild a new identity somehow.
Am struggling to articulate these thoughts, Not sure if I have expressed that very clearly,
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Some important Reports by the ME charity for children/young people, The Tymes Trust:
'False Allegations of Child Abuse in Cases of Childhood Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (ME)'
First published in the peer reviewed journal Argument and Critique
https://www.tymestrust.org/pdfs/falseallegations.pdf
'The Forgotten Children - A Dossier of Shame' 2003
'Tymes Trust presented this document to the Prime Minister on the 12th of May 2003. It details shocking statistics the Trust has collated from information supplied by families of children with ME.'
'Tymes Trust has evidence that the very systems set up by the government to help sick children and young people are being interpreted in ways that either ignore children with ME, or threaten, bully and intimidate them'
https://www.tymestrust.org/pdfs/theforgottenchildren.pdf
Further publications and Reports by the Tymes Trust.
https://www.tymestrust.org/tymespublications.htm
https://www.tymestrust.org/
2024: accusations of child abuse against parents of children with Long Covid (also mentions similar against families of children with ME):
https://www.s4me.info/threads/artic...-fii-accusations-in-me-cfs.38203/#post-528131
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I have seen very insightful accounts by adults' with ME about their experiences as children/youngsters with ME. Unfortunately those accounts often include the very real pressure families are under from schools re attendance, and from social services. Families, mothers especially, being suspected of encouraging, inducing illness in their children and referred to social services for investigation, apparently 1 in 5 families of children with ME.
'Carol Monaghan MP - Children with ME - House of Commons ME debate'
Also, interviewing people with ME (pwME) who are beyond the identity forming stage *may* reduce some of the hazards, likely harms, which may result from young adults being interviewed about ME and the identity forming thing, and everything about it, which includes all the disbelief, the losses, the disease denial, the loss of friendships, loss of education possibilities, loss of the possibility of fulfilling life ambitions, loss of relationships potential, family members' disbelief etc etc.
I suspect you are not aware of all the harms that are inflicted on pwME by the medical/society denial of ME, and medical/society abuses of pwME.
Though really, losing one's life to a serious illness, an illness which is perpetually and very publicly disputed, denied, gaslighted, and actually vilified, creates the most massive psychological pressures whatever age the pwME is. PWME who became sick in their 20s/30's/40's etc also face a devastating loss of identity and have to rebuild a new identity somehow.
Am struggling to articulate these thoughts, Not sure if I have expressed that very clearly,
Edit Add:
Some important Reports by the ME charity for children/young people, The Tymes Trust:
'False Allegations of Child Abuse in Cases of Childhood Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (ME)'
First published in the peer reviewed journal Argument and Critique
https://www.tymestrust.org/pdfs/falseallegations.pdf
'The Forgotten Children - A Dossier of Shame' 2003
'Tymes Trust presented this document to the Prime Minister on the 12th of May 2003. It details shocking statistics the Trust has collated from information supplied by families of children with ME.'
'Tymes Trust has evidence that the very systems set up by the government to help sick children and young people are being interpreted in ways that either ignore children with ME, or threaten, bully and intimidate them'
https://www.tymestrust.org/pdfs/theforgottenchildren.pdf
Further publications and Reports by the Tymes Trust.
https://www.tymestrust.org/tymespublications.htm
https://www.tymestrust.org/
2024: accusations of child abuse against parents of children with Long Covid (also mentions similar against families of children with ME):
https://www.s4me.info/threads/artic...-fii-accusations-in-me-cfs.38203/#post-528131
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