rvallee
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
A personal account of one man's life with ME. It lacks depth but it gives a good idea of the impact on quality of life.
Some technical bits are a bit off but it still adds up to a fair account of life with ME, how it unfolds, how much if affects, the social consequences, etc. I can say it very much mirrors my situation, though I was self-employed at the time and that was its own additional problem.
Missed opportunity to at least have a short bit on the recent funding and how there is a reversal on the way, one that still needs to be pushed to succeed.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2020-01...lness-left-tony-wallace-a-hollow-man/11839536
Some technical bits are a bit off but it still adds up to a fair account of life with ME, how it unfolds, how much if affects, the social consequences, etc. I can say it very much mirrors my situation, though I was self-employed at the time and that was its own additional problem.
Missed opportunity to at least have a short bit on the recent funding and how there is a reversal on the way, one that still needs to be pushed to succeed.
The catastrophic collapse of Tony Wallace’s life began slowly and silently.
An episode of flu. A persistent illness. A feeling of fatigue. A sense something was not so much wrong, as not quite right.
Over time, his ambiguous symptoms have morphed into a condition that defies medical diagnosis, resists treatment and relentlessly, ruthlessly drains the life out of his body.
The man who was once sharp, fit and strong knows that fighting his condition only makes things worse.
“I could say I will walk up and down the hill every day, but on the third day I won’t be able to get out of bed,” he concedes.
“So now my brainpower has to go towards acceptance rather than [saying] I’m going to plough ahead and ignore the pain.
“This disease just doesn’t give you that option. You are just down and out.”
The disease afflicting him was eventually diagnosed as myalgic encephalomyelitis, more commonly known as chronic fatigue syndrome or ME/CFS.
Tony’s wife, Sharon Stitt, believes he is one of the so-called “missing millions” — people with complex illnesses that drive them behind closed doors, away from public view.
Unable to work and cut off from family and friends by their incapacity, they end up isolated and invisible.
The suffocating immobility of Tony’s life is hard for an able-bodied person to comprehend.
Imagine you spend every day wading through wet cement.
It’s always there, impeding your every step, your every move, every minute of every single day.
Only the depth changes.
Sometimes it’s waist-deep, sometimes it’s chest-deep and sometimes you feel like you are drowning, struggling to keep your head above the surface.
The condition first emerged following a bout of flu in his 40s from which Tony struggled to recover.
Over the next decade his condition would deteriorate, at first almost imperceptibly, then escalating to the point where his health plunged off a cliff.
“My father is 83 years of age and he is in better health and physical condition than I am,” Tony says.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2020-01...lness-left-tony-wallace-a-hollow-man/11839536