The neurologist who saw my family member was quick to reassure them along the lines that: “these symptoms are very real. They are caused by trauma. We don’t know why this happens to people, but we do know all your symptoms are real and are happening to you. In the past patients were treated badly and not believed, but now these symptoms are believed and we want to help”. The doctor said they were shocked that my family member hadn’t already been receiving help for FND, & referred to a specialist centre which ran a FND course.
At the time this explanation rang true with my family member & rang true with me as well. It seemed to make sense. The doctor was kind about it & most importantly, had a way forward. They had a treatment option.
Even when FND (and it’s roots in trauma) was brought up for me, the neuropsychiatrist told me that they really felt I could benefit from their treatment - that they felt I shouldn’t just go to my local neuropsychiatrist department, but I had to go to their “specialist” one, that I’d need CCG funding for. This made me feel hopeful for a few minutes (really!), because they were telling me there was a unique treatment that existed that would really help me. This is despite me not actually having any of the rule-in signs of FND (I recently checked the signs again), and with a neurologist already having examined me and confirming my weakness & symptoms were in line with another (non functional) condition.
And similarly for some other people I know who were told they had FND. They were happy to have been diagnosed with a neurological condition - one that seemed to hold more recognition than ME and had some sort of help or treatment attached to it. They had regular appts with a neurologist / neuropsychiatrist too. The explanation given for all their symptoms (including symptoms like paralysis), made sense to them. (I know as I had a proper conversation about it). The thing about FND is that it 1) reassures patients that symptoms are real and should be believed and that 2) all those odd symptoms like fatigue or odd seizures or pain or paralysis all make sense now because it’s part of FND. And 3) it’s not the patients fault. It’s the brain doing things because of the trauma or other problems, that causes this. So all of this seems to make sense to many patients. I think it’s important to know this.