JemPD
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
Exactly. Its just more of the samejust another trick therapists have devised to ensure that they are always right and the patients always wrong, so needs their 'expertise'. Feeling bad? - you didn't do enough, feeling bad? - you did too much - you need to do what we say.
Which basically equates to "You're wrong. Your thoughts are wrong, your feelings are wrong, your behaviour is wrong. It doesnt matter what your personality is, or what your feelings are, or what you do, it will always be, simply, WRONG regardless. And you need us therapists to correct you, because we, are always, RIGHT"
But dont you know... it is a person's fear of spiders that makes them spend far too many hours in the arachnid house and covering themselves with spiders, that is what causes their arachnophobiaMore importantly, the model is that we are afraid of activity. Where the hell would a 'boom' occur, then? Especially given that there is no such evidence, and this consists of normal activities of daily living in most cases?
Well they dont need to do those studies, because it is 'well known' that we are all lazy & slovenly & need a kick up the backside. That is obvious, no studies required.Never any questions about
“I tend to leave things half completed”
“I do more than I intended, but less than I needed”
“I usually stop myself before I’ve finished a task”
But no the patient cries, 'i try really hard'....
'Aha!' snaps the therapist 'you see, you are a perfectionist'.
Like I said... "You're wrong, whatever you do, say, think or feel, its wrong."