If one gene makes it more likely that whatever ME/CFS is occurs (say fewer microtubules), then that will show up in a large enough genetic study because the people with that gene will be overrepresented in the ME/CFS group.
It depends on how large the effect is and how large the effect of other factors is, and how many false positives (multiple PWME who share a gene, but due to a non-genetic common factor). If the study requires a billion PWME to overcome noise, it's going to be a long wait.
Also, if there is a genetic contribution, it might be fairly indirect. Maybe the gene makes people more likely to respond a certain way to a certain microbe or nutrient or hormone at a certain point in their development, which affects something else, which affects something else, which eventually affects the chance of developing ME. I'm not expecting these studies to turn up an ME-gene. I'm not expecting even a combination of genes with a strong correlation with ME. I do expect some correlation with some genes, which doesn't result in any further knowledge, simply because if you search for correlations in a large enough data set, you will find some, even if the data is purely random numbers. Redo with different samples and you'll get a different set of correlations.
People from the same family also share a lot of non-genetic factors, such as diet, environment, activity/sleep habits, etc. You might find some gene correlations between those members who developed ME, but their actual common factor was eating clams from a polluted bay.
If you had multiple families with many members having ME, then I'd agree that genetic studies of them might be worthwhile. I don't get the impression that there are many such families, and they might be victims of other commonalities, such as the previous example.