Alvin
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
I agree but pictures convey powerful messages. For years i was hiding my symptoms, the exhaustion spells, the motor control problems, the shakes, the fatigue and so on. Now i let them show so people can see for themselves what i live with plus the severity makes them harder to hide. Seeing me using a scooter at the grocery store, needing to sit down or lie down frequently, the muscle weakness, watching me stumble or the couple falls i've had, seeing me look exhausted or watching my neurological tics sends powerful messages.I'm torn on this because illness doesn't look like anything. For all the "invisible illness" thing, it's pretty much a universal problem. What does cancer look like? It doesn't have a "look". Many people learn they have cancer a few weeks before they die precisely because it doesn't look like anything. The image people have of cancer isn't even cancer, it's the treatment.
Showing the disease is extremely difficult aside from severe patients, which itself is difficult for other reasons, the first of which is finding them. People are terrible at understanding the cascading effects of limitations they don't experience. "You spend your days in bed? Awesome!" No, think about that for a while and, no, it's definitely not even close to be awesome. One day, yeah, maybe, not for me but whatever. Years? Fuck no!
I think always it's the scale and severity that has an impact. The equivalent of a mid-sized country, hundreds of billions in economic burden, people usually taken in their youth, etc. This is work that takes serious communications skill to distill in a way that people understand. Even with the shoes we can't really show it well because it would literally millions of pairs of shoes to make it meaningful, people simply don't appreciate how gigantic the problem is, especially physicians.
Its embarrassing, it bothers me a great deal but seeing is believing.
Its both. When the public demands action governments act. Squeaky wheel gets the grease. When medical professionals say we need research funding and stop treating colleagues as below contempt and sabotaging their research requests we get more legitimacy.It's the medical professionals we have to convince because it's their contempt for us that gives the green light for others (especially gullible journalists and skeptics) to treat us like dirt and it's their advice that convinces politicians to keep on ignoring us. Medicine has a veto over which diseases get taken seriously and it is exercising that veto to crush everything we do. How to do that I have no idea but until we have medicine on our side, this is a political issue and we don't have the capacity to do that.
Discrimination comes from people and professionals and we need to change both.
As i said earlier MS is good analogue for ME here, it went from imagined to real and eventually the public became aware of it and real research money is now spent on it. Not nearly enough IMO but the longest journey begins with a single step.